Designing a Life That Feels Like Yours…. Not the One You Were Told to Want
A bold guide to rewriting your story at any age.
There comes a moment… quiet but undeniable… when the life you’ve been living starts to feel more like a costume than a home.
When the checkboxes don’t deliver joy.
When your achievements can’t hush that deep, soul-level ache for something more... something real.
I know that moment.
Because I lived it.
Rewriting the Script: My Journey to Becoming a Single Mom by Choice
For years, I did what most women are taught to do—
I followed the script.
Worked hard. Got the degrees (Ivy League, thank you very much).
Built the career. Showed up for everyone else.
Waited for the "right time" and the "right person" to start a family.
I stayed in the lines, even when my heart longed to color outside of them.
But something in me began to rise.
A knowing that wouldn’t quiet.
A desire for a life that felt deeply mine—not perfectly timed or socially approved.
So, at 41, I made a bold, terrifying, sacred decision:
I became a single mom by choice through IVF.
Not because it was easy.
But because waiting for a life that didn’t feel aligned was harder.
The Life You Were Told to Want
Whether you’re in Cape May County, the heart of Philadelphia, or anywhere around the world, you’ve likely inherited a silent set of instructions:
Be agreeable. Be nice. Don’t ask for too much.
Get married. Have kids by a certain age.
Don’t outshine. Don’t slow down. Don’t break the rules.
But what happens when those rules start to feel like cages?
What happens when the “dream life” isn’t your dream?
This is the moment when many of my clients come to me—burned out, successful, and completely disconnected from who they really are.
You Are Allowed to Want More
Let me say this clearly:
You are allowed to want more.
More freedom. More soul. More peace.
More truth.
Whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s or beyond, it’s never too late to wake up and realize:
➳ This life doesn’t fit me anymore.
➳ I’m allowed to rewrite my story.
➳ I want a life that actually feels like mine.
A Bold, Soul-Led Strategy for Reclaiming Your Life
Rewriting your story doesn’t mean blowing it all up overnight.
It means getting honest. Getting quiet. Getting clear.
Here’s how to begin:
Call Out the Old Story
Write down what you were taught about success, motherhood, love, identity, money, or being “a good woman.”
Whose voice is it? Is it yours?
If it doesn’t align, it’s time to edit that script.
Reconnect with Your Subconscious Desires
The subconscious mind holds the key to your truth.
Through hypnosis, subconscious reprogramming, and intentional inner work, you can uncover:
What do I really want when no one’s watching?
What have I been afraid to claim because it’s “too much”?
What lights me up—even if it scares me?
This work isn’t fluffy mindset fluff. It’s deep nervous system healing, identity expansion, and belief rewiring.
Design from the Inside Out
Forget society’s timeline.
Design your day, your career, your motherhood, your relationships, your self-expression based on what feels aligned, not what looks impressive.
Ask: What would my life look like if it were built on truth instead of fear?
Real Women. Real Change.
From the shores of Cape May to the streets of Philadelphia, from South Jersey suburbs to international cities—I work with women who are secretly craving more and different.
They are:
Midlife professionals ready to leave behind burnout
Moms who want more freedom and fulfillment
Women walking away from the life they were told to want
Creatives, leaders, entrepreneurs, and teachers who feel stuck
Souls who are done pretending and ready to remember who they are
As a global life coach and licensed therapist, I help them untangle the layers.
Unhook from the performance.
And build lives that feel like their own, even if it’s messy, nonlinear, and wildly unfamiliar.
You Don’t Need Permission… But Here It Is Anyway
This is your permission slip.
To choose motherhood in your own way.
To walk away from careers that drain you.
To stop pretending you’re fine when your soul is screaming for change.
To burn the rulebook and build something better.
Your truth doesn’t need to be justified.
Your joy doesn’t need to be delayed.
Your life doesn’t need to be small to be safe.
Ready to Build a Life That Feels Like Yours?
If you’re standing at the edge of your own unraveling...
If you’re done with the roles, the rules, the waiting...
If you’re ready to create a life that’s aligned, soulful, powerful, and true—
I’m here.
Book a free 30-minute Breakthrough Session
We’ll map where you are, where you’re being called to go, and the subconscious shifts to get you there.
Or, join me in-person for intimate, soul-led workshops in Cape May County, South Jersey, or virtual coaching from wherever you are in the world.
You don’t have to wait for the next chapter.
You get to write it now.
